im tired of things costing money
If you are seriously trying to say that starting a conversation with someone because you find them attractive is wrong, then I have to tell you that is the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Whether or not anyone wants to admit it, there is always a certain amount of physical attraction in any potential or existing relationship. That isn’t the problem. The problem is when that is all you’re concerned about and don’t care enough to try to establish any sort of connection. Physical attraction is natural, so don’t ever try to shame someone into thinking they are wrong for finding someone attractive.
If you read my post carefully then you’d see that yes, I do think she’s very attractive, and also that I want to talk to her to get to know her more and see if her and I would have any chemistry. So think twice before trying to make someone feel shitty for acknowledging that they find someone attractive.